Monday, December 23, 2024

Skating with Harley and Katie's birthday.

The Ghosts of Winter Past


Once upon a time I lived in hilly, pine tree covered Wausau, Wisconsin.
Every day at noon I would head over to the ice rink at the fair grounds to skate.
Typically four or five skaters would be there; a mother and a child, a young man skating figures, an elderly gentleman and me.

The young man showed me how to skate a figure eight. I learned to use the edges on my skates.
Harley, the elderly man, taught me to skate the waltz. The waltz is skated much faster than you would imagine and very close to your partner.

Stroke, swing, inside edge, loop.
Stroke, turn, outside edge, glide.

I was nervous and scared and worked very hard to keep up with Harley's speed and steps.

I loved it so much.

It was possibly the coolest thing I have ever done.


(post from quiet life 2005)

Did you know my blog is twenty years old?



My first profile picture.
















Christmas pictures thru the years.....

Katie turns twenty-five tomorrow.
She was four when I started blogging.

We continue to  enjoy one another's company and make one another giggle.
She and her boyfriend will come over for chicken and dumplings tomorrow.
We might put together a puzzle and make the last of the rolo turtles.

We will live that quiet life when we are not laughing out loud.



Happy birthday honey.
I love you.

Mom







Thursday, December 05, 2024

December: All Bundled Up

Welcome December!






With such a late Thanksgiving, December took us by surprise.
Well.  Me at least! heh.




December
by John Updike


First snow! The flakes,
So few, so light,
Remake the world
In solid white.

All bundled up,
We feel as if
We were fat penguins,
Warm and stiff.

The toy-packed shops
Half split their sides,
And Mother brings home
things she hides.

Old carols peal.
The dusk is dense
There is a mood
Of sweet suspense.

The shepherds wait,
The kings, the tree
All wait for something
Yet to be.

Some miracle.
And then it's here,
Wrapped up in hope-
Another year!



******


December memories....





















Last year Katie and Karen decorated for me.  I think I really liked that tradition!!!

I am slowly switching the decorations over from fall to winter.  Slowly.


Yoohoo.  Katie and Karen!!!


Encourage One Another,

Donna









Friday, November 15, 2024

Constants







Happy one year anniversary!
Lumpectomy done. check.
As you can see I was loved and supported by my lovely family.
Cindy came to the hospital and was there for me and Patrick.

The above picture is from the day after my surgery.  You can see I was feeling just fine.
For me surgery is no big deal. 

Wound care (bad care)
Chemo side effects.
ER visits.
Big deal.


I did have great results from my surgery so for that I am very grateful.
(Clear margins and no cancer in lymph nodes)

But most of all I think of all my loved ones.
My constants.
And I feel so very thankful and blessed.

Love you. Mean it.
Donna Elsie



*******


Still Here
been scared and battered.
My hopes the wind done scattered.
Snow has friz me,
Sun has baked me,

Looks like between 'em they done
Tried to make me

Stop laughin', stop lovin', stop livin'--
But I don't care!
I'm still here! 
~Langston Hughes






 



Monday, November 11, 2024

hair growth after chemo. month eight

 





I once ran a brush through my hair and I couldn't believe it!




This is what my hair looked like. And while I love Prue and think she looks great...
she is 84 after all.
I'm not ready to look 20 years older than I am.






Chemo curls are VERY common.
They go every which way.

I bought a product called Love ur Curls.
This helps my hair not be so bouffant.

Just making a record here.
I imagine next month to be about the same.
We shall see.

My son Patrick said,

"How often do you get to grow a totally new hair style?"

My son, who is not an encourager in general, really encouraged me.


So there you have month eight, chemo grow out.

A few more days and I will celebrate the lumpectomy anniversary.
What a year.  What a year.


Encourage one another,
Donna








Friday, November 01, 2024

November comes

 November

The stripped and shapely
Maple grieves
The ghosts of her
Departed leaves.

The ground is hard,
As hard as stone.
The year is old,
The birds have flown.

And yet the world,
In its distress,
Displays a certain 
Loveiness--

The beauty of 
The bone.  Tall God
Must see our souls
This way, and nod.

Give thanks: we do,
Each in his place
Around the table
During grace.


 by John Updike


I find this poem to be so beautiful and surprisingly profound for a children's poem.

Don't You?






















***

Indian Summer came and went. 
The gusty winds finally blew the leaves from the trees.  

The Spring training, that had begun so long ago had ended, and summer ball had taken its place,
and a fall, and Shohei Ohtani had won a World Series.




Congrats Dodgers
Congrats Shohei.
Thanks for a wonderful season!


Encourage one another,
Donna

HT:Harper Lee





Tuesday, October 22, 2024

Mommy loves you, Ginny.


Our dear girl.
10-31-2011
10-20-2024


She really had a gentle spirit.
Except when people stopped by...then she lost her mind, she was so happy!!!




What great smiles!




The holding hands is just too sweet!



Ginny especially loved her big sisters.



She especially loved begging for food. She never snatched it.
But was there for the long stare down.






We should have walked her more.





My favorite place in all of Chicago is the dog park.



Her most pretty pose.




She had a wonky eye but it was not noticable when she got older.



Welcome home.




Ginny was breed with love by a bird hunting family.





When we named Ginny, Ginny my sister Janice was delighted because she loved the Harry Potter books.
(Mary also! )
My sister Janice had the most beautiful and perfect line...every stick will be a wand....
and I can't remember all of it and I have spent over and hour trying to find it. I'm afraid the quote is in the long deleted comments.  Too bad.
Do you remember what you said Janice.  It was poetic and delightful.






 


Final photo of our honey.  We had a comfort room.  Candles and Hershey Kisses.  Ginny got to eat kisses and cheese and Chocolate cake before she went to sleep.  She could not eat easily but managed. Ginny was confused and did not recognize us.  It was so hard.  The staff at the emergency Vet was incredible.  Kind and gentle and sweet and reassuring. 

We cried and cried. And I cry even now.

We sure were lucky to have such a good girl come live with us.  She gave us lots of love and comfort and joy.

Mommy loves you Ginny.