Katie took three AP classes( which she passed and scored well), scored in the upper 20's for her ACT, was one of six Verona representatives for Leadership Madison, participated in MUN (and worked super hard), she has a 3.8 GPA, took college French for her 4th year and got an A, she has volunteered for charities and for in the theater.
I am not telling you this to brag.
I am telling you this because all of this was not good enough to get in to the colleges she wanted to go to.
She was rejected by all of the selective schools she applied to.
She applied to these schools because of their curriculum, diversity, international flare and cost.
(100% need based aide).
She applied to the University of Wisconsin. She was wait listed.
She applied to two other schools, one here in town and one in Minnesota.
She was accepted by these two schools. But the local school would still cost 20,000 while living at home, and the Minnesota school was a last minute idea...and her heart was not into it.
So four years of doing everything she could do to get into college...a college she could afford,
was for naught.
She is planning on taking a gap year and trying to figure out what to do next.
She is interested in traveling, volunteering, working and learning.
She is positive and hopeful.
I am not taking it so well. I am sad for her and it is the thing I mull over at 4:00 am when I wake up.
I am trying to believe that this is for the best.
I'm not sure how long I will leave this up. I'm not sure Katie would approve.
This is the best I can do. Can't add less details without being terribly vague.
Katie is not interested in most of my suggestions.
I really don't like having this big open space in her life.
But it's not my life and I will keep loving her and encouraging her, when she will listen.
But this weekend will be a big blast because Emma and James and Matthew and Melinda are coming to town to celebrate with Katie. We will have a house full of love and children and I just can not wait.
Patrick and Shelby and Dottie are doing great!!
Our Quiet Life baby.
High school graduate.
We are incredibly proud of the young lady she is.
All will be well.